If you recently discovered your partners affair or have known for a while and find yourself feeling worse not better, as time goes on you may be wondering what to do now. Rest assured you are not alone and you don’t need to go through it alone either.

The packages below will have you feeling calm, confident and clear on what to do next. Whether that involves actions to save your marriage or preparing yourself and any children for a divorce, support is available.

 (Note: If you have decided you want to fight for your relationship and use the affair to become closer than ever click and book your Free Save My Marriage Consultation Now)

FREE Save My Marriage Consultation

Discovering an affair is one of the most painful life events you can go through. Shattered dreams, hopes and expectations can leave you feeling hurt, disappointed  and angry.  Carrying these negative feeling with you limits you and your life, as our positive energy and feeling good is the most important asset we have to create a happy life. If you are finding it hard to think about anything else, where the same images or thoughts keep coming up again and again or if you find yourself doubting everything and no longer feel like yourself anymore…

I want you to know there is hope.

Together we can define actions you can take to reduce the chaos infidelity has caused in your life. I will help you deal with the affair and devastation so you can gain clarity on what you need to do next for you and the relationship. You will finish the program feeling calm and confident about yourself and your future.

You May Be Questioning…

If you now have all the facts and know full truth?

If you will ever be able to trust again?

If you will ever want to be intimate again?

If you should stay or go?

If your marriage can be saved?

Why they did it?

How they could do this to you?

If you will be okay living on your own?

How your children will be affected in all of this?

You May Be Feeling

Confused, overwhelmed, rejected, angry, sad, anxious, lonely, numb, exhausted, depressed, sick, relieved.

All of these are natural and normal reactions following the discovery of the affair. I will help you to feel confident and alive again, with a clear direction for your future.

The good news is discovering an affair can be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Really! Through your partners affair you are given (albeit painfully) the opportunity to redesign your whole life. To create a more meaningful path for yourself and your loved ones. You can thoughtfully and intentionally design what you want your future to be like. Things won’t be the same again, but would you want them to be anyway?  Let’s make your life even better.

It all starts with a decision

A decision that you are worth more than this, that you deserve to have a great life and are worth investing in. If you are ready to make that decision check out the 2 programs below.

AFTER THE AFFAIR PROGRAMS

1. Gain Clarity On What to Do Next

This package is designed for you to work out what to do next , how to deal with your spouse and how to move forward. If one minute you think about divorce and the next your convincing yourself to make things work – you are not alone. Discovering an affair can leave you feeling hurt, frustrated and utterly confused. Deciding whether to stay or go is one of the biggest decisions you will ever have to make in your life, so thinking and talking it through is essential.

At the end of the program you will

  • Be free from holding on to any anger, resentment and bitterness
  • Know how to reconnect and become close again if you want to save the marriage
  • Understand how to fix any problems and rebuild your faith and trust in others
  • Have got rid of any fear and anxiety about the future
  • Make a clear decision on what to do that is best for you
  • Be able to stop the obsessive thoughts and flashbacks

In order to gain clarity you need to put to rest any repetitive thoughts, as well as face any fears you have about staying or leaving. It’s never a good idea to make decisions when we are full of anger, fear of guilt. Which is why I have designed a process to help guide you through this difficult time and come out feeling Calm, Confident & Clear on what to do next.

Did you know there are 6 different types of reactions your cheating spouse may have after their affair? Knowing how to handle them can be tricky, so I will guide you through this also.

Another benefit is you get to rediscover yourself again, decide and design the life you want and overcome any barriers holding you back.

 


2. Save Your Marriage After the Affair Couple Program

Do you know the secret key to a lasting, fulfilling happy marriage?

The secret key is having a strong connection with your spouse. If your connection has been destroyed or broken down with your spouse, then the ultimate marriage connector will be a great solution.

The Ultimate Marriage Connector program is ideal if you are experiencing any or all of the following:

  • You no longer have sex or want to be touched
  • You no longer communicate apart from discussing logistics
  • You feel lonely when you are together or empty inside
  • Your marriage is at high risk of an emotional, virtual or physical affair
  • You find yourself overacting to things that previously wouldn’t have got to you
  • You think about leaving and wonder if you married the wrong person
  • You can’t remember the last time you felt close, laughed or had fun together

Click below to book your free consultation.

 


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